Camel and Gray Style Steal & Balance In My Life

I got asked the other day how I balance everything?  

Beige Hat c/o Sole Society

Colorblock Shawl c/o Sole Society

Suede Booties c/o Sole Society

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Gold Aviators $28

The honest answer to balance is that I don’t.  I don’t believe in balance and that as a mom, wife, friend, CEO, entrepreneur, blogger, and social media participant that balance happens.  I find that the the most successful people don’t have balance.  What is balance for me is really what I’m doing.  It’s not calm and serenity that some want, but for me it is achieving goals, being busy, trying to do too much which  results in happiness and the feeling of satisfaction.  Might sound strange, but it is truly hard for me to sit still and do nothing.  Some of my friends have recommended yoga or reading or turning off the TV and just being, but for now I’m ok with the way life is.  Blogging and instagram is my hobby/job I love, t+j Designs fulfills so much of my career goals and happiness as I love fashion and being a mom and wife brings more happiness and stress but I wouldn’t want it any other way.  And I feel lucky to get invited to events, host events and have the luxury to do date nights and girls dinners.  Overall a lack of balance is exactly what I need right now so why would I want what isn’t me?  

So the next time someone questions your balance, answer the question truthfully and if you don’t want the traditional balance that’s ok because you are the one living it.  My lack of balance is who I am and who knows maybe I’ll change my mind tomorrow or next year but for now, my balance is not having any.



  1. Payton Taylor
    February 23, 2016 / 4:23 pm

    Such cool pieces for staying warm while transitioning into spring, but since trends come and go so its not sustainable or smart to spend $$ on items that will be out of style in a few months. Check out – its a great way to rent your favorite trends from the top designers ( Chanel, McQueen, YSL…) at fast fashion prices! Plus you are helping the earth, nice little bonus!

  2. شركة الطيب
    February 29, 2016 / 3:35 am

    شركة المنارة تعد افضل شركة مكافحة حشرات بالرياض ان خدمات مكافحة الحشرات تحتاج الي شركة متميزة و رائعة فنحن نعمل علي القضاء علي الحشرات بشكل رائع كما اننا نقدم لكم ايضا افضل الخدمات الرائعة و هي شركة تخزين اثاث بالرياضنحن شركة المنارة نقوم بتخزين الاثاث بافضل الطرق التي تجعل الاثاث امن فنحن نقوم بتخزين الاثاث في مستودعات تخزين اثاث بالرياض نحن شركة المنارة افضل شركة تنظيف كنب بالرياض تنظيف الكنب من الخدمات المهمة للغاية فان كل شركة تعمل علي تنظيف الكنب بدقة فنحن افضل شركة تنظيف كنب بالرياض نعد افضل شركة تسليك مجاري بالرياض كما اننا نهتم بخدمة تنظيف الخزانات فنحن افضل شركة تنظيف خزانات بالرياضو نحن نريد ان نكون الافضل علي الاطلاق كما اننا افضل مكافحة حشرات بالرياض نعتمد علي العمالة المدربة علي مستوي

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